Showing posts with label life is good. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life is good. Show all posts

Monday, July 7, 2008

Puerto Vallarta: The Good


Mr. B at Cilantro's, definitely a "good"!

We'll start with the good first because, generally, it was more of a good trip than a bad or buggy one!

Travel
We had zero trouble with any of our four flights. I mean, none. Considering how much has been in the news of late about flight delays, crowded flights, lost luggage, added expenses, etc., I was fully prepared for some glitch. Niente! Now, some of this could have been attributed to the fact we traveled Wednesday-Wednesday, thus avoiding a lot of "families". Yeah, the planes were still crowded, but, there were some empty seats here and there.

Service at the Resort
The service at the resort was top-notch. What I mean is, we were treated well all the way around. All of the resort's employees were friendly with a "can-do" attitude. We had a few problems with our room(s) (see "the bad"); but, when called upon, the maintenance and house keeping crew were there very quickly to help us out. When we requested to change our room, there was zero issue with doing so. We interacted most frequently with the waiters/cocktail servers; all of them were fantastic. The waiters at the pool have obviously learned to be amusing and entertaining and flattering and to keep track of what you like to drink and to keep 'em coming!

Drinks and Food
The alcoholic drinks at the resort were really potent. Maybe that would be "bad" for some, not so for us. Hey, we're on vacation, after all; and, if you are going to pay for a drink, it should be a worthy one. I'd read a lot of reviews prior to our trip about the resort were people where complaining about "watered down drinks" and "expensive beer". Well, our drinks packed a powerful punch. For instance, we had two margaritas the afternoon we checked in. Afterwards, we walked down the street to a grocery store. Let's just say the walk and the journey inside the store/mall was a bit foggy for yours truly. And, every single day there was a two for one happy hour out by the pool followed by a two for one happy hour a hop, skip and a jump beyond the pool at the sport's bar the following hour. So, I don't know what folks were bitching about, frankly. Most of the food we ate at the resort was just fine, too (with one exception, which you'll see under "the bad"). We really loved the refried beans at the resort! Funny, huh?

Also excellent were a few of the restaurants we managed to get to: The Cheeky Monkey (cheap beer and a great view of the Malecon), Mr. Cream Pancakes and Waffles (in the Marina; this was a life-saver Sunday morning when we were craving non-Mexican breakfast food), Pipi's (FANTASTIC custom-order table-made (and free) guacamole plus HUGE margaritas) and Cilantro's (romantic, gourmet and not overly expensive; especially enjoyable if you like cilantro but not mandatory).

Note: I've posted/am posting reviews of the resort and some of the restaurants we ate at on my Trip Advisor site which you can access under "Mrs. B's Stuff" on my Blog.

Finally, we were incredibly close to a major grocery store, Soriana (about a 2 block walk from our resort). We were able to load up at a reasonable expense on staples for our room; coffee creamer, juice, paper towels (they never provide these for some reason), beer, wine, tequila, snack foods, bread, cheese, etc.) They have a huge bakery in the store where you could go every day if you wanted and pick out fresh pastries, muffins, cakes, rolls, etc., for something like 30 cents each.

Transportation
It was a cinch getting around Puerto Vallarta using either the bus or the taxis. Since this resort is in town, everything is fairly close by so the fares were not bad at all. There was a bus stop to the right of the entrance to the hotel. We took the bus one day down to the Malecon area (boardwalk). It was really easy to do, but, unfortunately, it was bloody hot and humid that day and Mr. B almost melted in front of my eyes. So, we didn't ride the bus again, but, had it been cooler, we would have for sure, since it was $1.10 round trip per person! Fares for taxi rides to the Malecon and points beyond ran about $5-$6 one way; to the Marina about $8 and to the airport the same. Very, very reasonable.

Shopping
Ok, we didn't do a lot of this (we really didn't need anything) but, I have to admit, there were likely some great bargains to be had if we'd chosen to get down and dirty at the flea markets and some of the other stores. Mr. B DID manage to find a few more than decent deals on cigars. I bought a very pretty beach dress from one of the hawkers near the resort for $20; I could have bought two for $30, had I been of the mind to.

Relaxing
We spent a lot of time laying out at the pool/in the pool talking, reading, working crossword puzzles, swimming, drinking, eating, playing games, people watching (although there was definitely not as much people drama on this trip as we've observed on others) and simply relaxing. The pool area was kept up very well and the water was lusciously warm. Oh, and they had a fun pool slide, too (which we actually went down a time or two, mostly, though, it was amusing to watch everyone else go down!) We also spent a far amount of time out on our lanais (in particular, once we got moved away from chain-smoking dudes). We really like to sit out, smoke a cigar (but not CHAIN-SMOKE, ha ha) read, sip a glass of wine, play cards, talk, and watch all the people down at the pool.

The Italians have a saying, "Il dolce far niente" (there ya go, Father!) that means "The sweetness of doing nothing". I must say that, for the most part, Mr. B and I are really good living up to this when we are on vacation (and we did so this go-around).
For two people that are busy, busy busy all the time (albeit in different ways), this is a very pleasant pastime, especially getting to do it TOGETHER and at the SAME TIME! For me, this saying could extend to "The sweetness of THINKING nothing"; probably much more apt since my brain runs on full throttle the majority of the time.

Mrs. B






Friday, March 14, 2008

The "Best" Years of Our Lives


People usually can look back on their lives (even if they still have many years in front of them (hopefully)) and say, "Oh, the years of so and so and so and so were the BEST years of my life so far!" I remember doing this even when I was yet a kid; thinking back, wistfully on a particular summer season or school year and remembering them with extreme fondness.

I was thinking on this concept the other day.

At this point in my life, I would say that the years 2004-2005 were two of the best years of my life (so far).

Perhaps one reason why is that I was coming off a few of the WORST years of my life (or, at least, really difficult and challenging and exhausting) but, on their own, they stand out as "freaking awesome" times.

Here's why:

1. I was just 40 and moved into a really nice townhouse in Durham. Having done so, I was closer to my brothers and their wives AND enjoying the adventure of exploring/getting to know a new town/area. I had no idea what was going to happen next, so, the sky was truly the limit.

2. I had my boys, Nigel and Clyde, with me. At that point in time, they were still healthy, happy and chubby.

3. Soon into 2004, I signed up for eHarmony. After one "dud" (SCOTT); I was matched with Mr. B. The rest, of course, is history!

4. I signed up for and did many things I never thought I would; namely, I took some weird touchy-feely courses at Duke (Council) and joined a Council Group. I later enrolled in the ESL Teaching Certificate Program at Duke, and, although I'm not currently utilizing what I learned, it's not something I'll ever lose, either. And, it was FUN being back in school!

5. There were many family get-togethers/gatherings/experiences during both of those years. I had my first Indy 500 experience which was something else again ("Here's a pillow to put over your head if there is a tornado. Anyone want some meatloaf?")

6. Mr. B proposed!

7. Mr. B and I went on A LOT of trips together; namely, our first very memorable trip to Charleston, to the NC Wine Festival, to LA/San Diego, to New York, to Alabama, to the Food and Wine Festival in Orlando, to Ft. Wayne for the holidays, etc., etc., etc.

8. 2005 brought more of the same; lots more gatherings, vacations, etc., with the ultimate for me being our wedding in Charleston in May, our big shin-dig in June and, our fantastic honeymoon on the Queen Mary II and several days spent in London.

9. After spending Thanksgiving in San Diego with friends, the year ended with a big holiday celebration at our townhouse in Durham with just about our entire family there.

So, yeah, great times. GREAT times.

And, I suppose that it is times like these that one remembers when times aren't so hot; as reminders that life CAN be sweet AND will be again.
As I said, these two years came after a few fairly crappy ones.

And, as life often goes, while these years were near perfect for me, there were challenges, disappointments and heartbreaks for those close to me. I'm happy to report, though, that in at least two of those situations, things turned out for the ultimate best all around.

Enough philosophising! Time to suck down some more coffee and get a stick on!

Mrs. B